I'm creative, intelligent, attentive, kind, have a great sense of humor, and full of passion. I am proud of the fact that I've lost 25 pounds over the last 4 months and I'm striving to lose 25 more. I'm not a workout junky by any means, but I like how I feel when I am lighter. I am currently married, but the wife and I haven't had sex in 2 years. The explanation is too long to include here. Needless to say, I feel like I am about to explode. If you are not okay with a married man, simply find another profile. Looking for like minded married person for discreet encounters, preferably regular. Not exactly friends with benefits, but that's the idea. I prefer BBW and love red hair.

My Ideal Person She must care for their appearance/hygiene. I am fond of medium to long hair though short hair is not a deal breaker. I get that it's hard to take care of longer hair.

I'm looking for a woman who is funny, intelligent, mature, and full of passion. Words are important to me. If you swear regularly like a sailor, I will assume you aren't very creative.

I need someone who is physically fit enough for sexual activity (if we reach that point.)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sandra Bullock - she is the girl next door kind of gorgeous.
She has some curves to her body as well.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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