I am a busy small business owner that travels the area on occasion. I am a well educated man, and I have a very large appetite for fantasies and added kinks.. As soon as I have time to elaborate on this subject I will. I apologize for the lack of substance here... Thanks for reading! Update, 4/27 I am leaving the first parts I wrote, because I am not done honing this in yet. But I have wanted to take the time to explain myself for so long, that I think I have to do it in installments. Lol. So please bare with me... I am a very married man, and I am only looking for a discreet situation, with a person that I have to right kind of connection with. Our marriage has its issues, as most do, but all in all we are very compatible. A few years ago..our sex life changed dramatically. As I found a second wind in my libido, my wife's had already begun to decline. As of now we maybe have sex once every few weeks. And its a functional task for her, but provides me with very little satisfaction. Although, even if I don't cum, it is very erotic to make the other person reach their limits. There is nothing less sexy than having a partner that is only interested in sex because they feel like they owe it to you. And that's pretty much my situation. I am a very open minded man. As I have been left to my own devices for sexual satisfaction, I have learned a lot.. Lol. There are things that otherwise I wouldn't have found as erotic, without seeing other normal people getting into them. And by normal, I mean not actors playing out a script. I am very certain that I do not want to touch a guy or for them to touch me, in a sexually satisfying way that is... But the whole Hot Wife thing is extremely erotic to me! I wish more than anything that I could watch my wife riding the crap out a man, but the reality is she wouldn't enjoy it then either.. I will say I do get very turned on thinking about pounding someones wife while they watch or join in.. I know every guy says that they can last long and all, but for me it sometimes a problem.. I have found that being super turned on is the best way, and then I'm ready for round two pretty quick.. I have always been a big fan of toys, in and out of the house.. And love women of all shapes and sizes. Honestly, I am way more concerned with finding someone who gets so hot and wet from the same things that keep me throbbing hard at my desk at work.. Like writing all this stuff out..

My Ideal Person I would like to find a single, married or attached woman that is not looking to change her situation. I need to find a partner that I can connect with. So an open mind and willingness to explore is very important. I am a very giving lover and am just looking for a partner that is willing to expand her desires..

Update, 4/27

I would like to find a woman who understands my circumstance, and is comfortable with my situation. I am seeking a dedicated person as I am not looking for multiple hook ups. I want to form a very strong sexual connection with my partner, in fact its essential! I have a very open mind about most things, as long as there is no guy on guy stuff, and would want to find someone who is looking to expand their desires. I am a giving type of person, in bed. I want a woman that will respond to me kissing my way up their leg and thigh till I can just brush their lips with my hot breathe and kisses.. And someone who would enjoy extended foreplay as I like to tease. And by tease I mean till we are so horny it doesn't matter that you are making a puddle in your chair at Starbucks.. The real fun from there is how far away the car is parked, and how many hidden corners are there on the way to the car...

All I have time for now... And I am throbbing hard.. Lol...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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