Hi, I am 44 year old who has been happily married for 20 years. We are in an open marriage and are also swingers. We are on another site that is more for couples, but I am trying this out for solo play because I travel a lot for work I am an easy going guy who likes to have fun and laugh a lot. I keep in shape and active but also loves good food and drinks. I am a true believer in the philosophy of work hard, play hard! I am attracted to strong independent women with confidence and of course a good sense of humor. Someone who tells me what she wants and how she likes it. As I mentioned already I am married and very much in love so I am only looking for someone that is wanting a physical connection, not emotional