Pros who work on this app PLEASE save yourself and me the time I am NOT AT ALL desperate for attention Ok ladies get ready for some fun reading runon sentences lol and to get peral if not downright hot and bothered by what youll find out about the guy in these pictures Ill give this the old college try Ok here we go ME Single lol honest available emotionally amp otherwise socially liberal not fiscally lol artloving very straightforward definitely sapiosexual typical Gemini creative BHM 360 tall 61 dark incredibly handsome of course lol agnostic and laughing about it 100 world citizen with a US passport multilingual fluentfluentsome multicultural open minded intelligent successful postgrad Mensa confident strong caring protective special I grew up in Europe Germany and as a bodyguard and pro MMA fighter I traveled extensively and lived all over Now living in California the beautiful City of Angels where Ive successfully conquered the music tv film expert and internet business world since 1994 Yep I used to and to some extend I still am quite the busy body but I always have made and will continue to make time for the people I love and things that are important to me As you are just starting to get to know me please indulge me for a minute while I post a few things my family friends fans associates and employees got a picture on here with some of my execs say and hopefully truly thinkfeel about me Ben is largerthanlife probably in the truest sense of the word a witty streetsmart academic whos truly been In The Trenches so we didnt have to OK thats from a book reviewer but I do like the accolade lol Ben has a refreshing topofthefoodchain attitude combined with a bright and winning smile We love the guy They have to say that when they work for me jk On LinkedIn Ive been called lol ready the Mr Miyagi of the Internet Well in the words of the once very wise and talented Mr Miyagi that could either mean Trust quality of what you know not quantity or Wax on was off You can decide that for yourself AFTER youve met me Need a few more Highlights Well I know from experience I can command any room and any audience I have coached many people in losing their fear of public speaking Ive trained the Germany Federal Police and Border Patrol as well as the Guardia Civil Spanish National Guard in unarmed combat Ive also coached and helped men and women suffering from PTSD vets and victims of sexual predators in growing their overall confidence in themselves While I couldnt have disagreed more with some of his policies I still accepted and now am the proud and one of the youngest recipients of President Bush 2s Presidential Volunteer amp Service Award for my community work and my political work with the City of Los Angeles and LA County I LOVE my life my family my friends runon sentences really using my words and well chemistry and math yep I know lol Im a European Caucasian former bodyguard and pro MMA fighter during 80s and 90s no worries lol turned successful serial entrepreneur I still can kick higher than most of you are tall got some martial arts pics up here somewhere Im a public speaker today travel a reaable amount for work and fun and am by definition a distinctive typeA guy Im a man who actually loves respects and appreciates women no BS find out for yourself and enjoys being around good people in general I sport a great and sometimes wicked sense of humor stay pretty chill even under pressure but my use of certain fourletter and choice words goes up lol and I have a good repertoire of oneliners to suit when needed Oh you should definitely like that in your man not try to change that I have an active work and social life and I do NO LONGER apologize to anyone for being successful Ive done that for years and Ive gotten over it Hence please know that I cast a BIG shadow literally and figuratively speaking and unless youre successful in your own right andor confident in your own skin or very submissive which is fine with me as well please be prepared to stand in it and enjoy it or if you know you cant and contact me anyway PLEASE be upfront about it and please DO NOT secretly hold your breath hoping for an LTR I know this sounds harsh much harsher than it really is lol but I just want to be straightforward about this because I value both of our time and energy Plus this is MY intro and Im not forcing anyone to read it And finally Of course since Im a helpless romantic Love Actually is my fav movie Im always hoping to one day find my soulmate At the same time Im to old to not be somewhat of a realist and because of that I am NOT saying NO to some FWBNSA if we both click on that level While I consider myself an equal opportunity dater Like most women yet unlike most men Im selective about whom I spend time with IMPORTANT While I seem to have had an affinity for true reds I really DO NOT have any particular physical type as Im very much sapiosexual In other words if you are NOT that intelligent andor can NOT carry on an intellectually fun and stimulating conversation without first checking your social media accounts you BETTER be smoking HOT lolHey like I mentioned earlier Im a guy after all just an honest one My dinosaur brain wants to be stimulated by you one way or another lol HOWEVER I am definitely looking for new friendships and shortlong term dating all of which may well with guys it will not grow into a romantic affectionate and passionate LTR Im sure most of you feel similarly about this whether you publicly admit to it or not thats what flirting is for lol To be honest Ive met some of my best friends no not just FWB lol online so dont be too shy and say hi you may be my red Skittle Well you have made it down this far in my profile so you either are bored out of your mind sorry absolutely mesmerized by my perality and writing style thanks or actually interested Ok my sweet Bonnies and red Skittles for those of you who are still reading I will gladly tell you even a bit more about myself AND who I would LOVE to meet as well what THE TWO OF US could be and do together OK lets start with YOUSpecial funloving smart down to earth wholesome healthy cute big heart creative great smile good teeth sorry very loving intelligent supportive willing advisor best friend natural woman openminded a bit of a kinky mind is a plus lol sense of humor social You should be monogamous IF you plan to be in an LTR with me and be upfront about what you want You definitely would want and be able to become my quintessential Lady in the Streets and Freak in the Sheets Ideally youd want to be my red Skittle theyre my fav the Yin to my Yang and the Bonnie to my Clyde and vice versa of course Ha ha that probably didnt come over quite the way I was hoping but if you are my kind of gal youll know exactly what I mean Of course I could keep going but I do want to make sure Im still going out with an actual human being not a robot or an alien US While spending time wed be going together lol to some friends and possibly rather public social events such as parties fundraisers social and political red carpets etc Surprise You obviously MUST be comfortable or better even LOVE dolling and dressing up having your picture taken thats not code for anything else but what Im stating here btw and socializing with and at times without me as at first my awesome plus one date lover and eventually girlfriend or BUTYoud also HAVE TO be equally comfortable with and very much LOVE dressing down hanging out and chillin in private with no one but the two of us Pillow talk is essential and just like loyalty trust and certain runon sentences a total turn on Like me youd eventually want us to be fully committed to each other Wed trust each other fully and live laugh love and enjoy whatever simple or exclusive experiences life has to offer us together whenever desired and possible Wed become a loyal team of best friends true lovers and fun partners in crime on our way to possibly becoming a power couple HAPPY ENDING The best part of life is the one about to begin The time is now PS Real quick Ive been asked a few times what are things I would never give up voluntarily Since it seems important to some ladies here they are in no particular order My health or life duh My 2 boys double duh My integrity all I have Love no bliss without it Hope no future without it Passion amp sex a guy remember lol PPSFor ladies who like perality tests True to Gemini form Im an INPT using one MyersBriggs test and an ENPTT using another Go figure lol FAIR WARNING Im a confident GGG type and when we are going out an a date probably a nice dinner art gallery art walk or maybe a surprise date to start well have great conversation lots of flirting fun chatting and possibly a drink or two I want to get to know you and you should want to get to know me I may be a wordsmith a nerd at heart and a MENSA member BUT I am most definitely NOT a wallflower During our date I probably WILL kiss you at some point because nothing else tells us more about chemistry than a kiss no worries lol I wont rush In my experience knowing this ahead of time ALWAYS makes for a super fun and exciting first date Again Im a an upfront guy and you and I both know that most attractive guys on dating sides want to sleep with you sooner or later FOOTNOTES not PG Now that were at THE subject I very much know my way around a womans body I have written various articles on relationships and womens well known and less known erogenous zones as well as mens abilities to help women NOT having to fake their orgasms anymore Id always make you feels special safe relaxed and desired I treat you with respect the way IMO a woman should be treated Ive heard many women often complain that so many men always just want to rush them into sex get to the point where they get to pound them like a jackhammer while the guys tend to avoid foreplay and certainly all afterplay I published my thoughts on this and concluded that one of the big reas that this occurs is because men truly dont know well enough which areas of a womans body is arousing to her plus of course mens urge to sleep with their partner It is his lack of knowledge of these less popular yet incredibly rewarding erogenous zones that always leads him straight to her vagina or breasts the only areas most men are at least somewhat familiar with Read the full article on my AFF BlogOk ladies I think Im starting to approach the point of diminishing returns as Im running out of things to write that may help the right woman who wants us to be us find me So lets stop here Intrigued Dont just SWIPE RIGHT or LIKE me got plenty of those and I dont want to miss out on you Instead shoot me a message on here to say hi and definitely let me know why YOU ARE or could be my RED SKITTLE the YIN to my YANG and the BONNIE to my CLYDE xoxo

My Ideal Person Many women often like to complain that men always want to rush into sex and tend to avoid foreplay I think one of the big reasons that this occurs is because men truly dont know well enough which areas of a womans body is arousing to her plus of course mens urge to sleep with their partner It is his lack of knowledge of these less popular yet incredibly rewarding erogenous zones that always leads him straight to her vagina or breasts the areas most men are familiar with On the other hand I will always make it my priority to make you feel safe relaxed desired and treat you respectful the way a woman should always be treated

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Watching YOU orgasm

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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