Am only a standard member, so can't flirt or mail you. You can mail me! A gynecologist wanna-be that loves nipple and genital piercings (the more extreme the better), Toys and unusual objects (veggies, sausage, speculum, etc., whatever might interest you), Mild B&D interests me, I wouldn't mind a partner open to a slap on their luscious booties. I find S&M to be somewhat uncomfortable, but could be enticed into the roll as Master with the right sexual partner. I enjoy "sensitive love making" and other times I need a woman that can let the animal in me out. Fantasizes include going around the world, having a woman's vagina completely engulf my hand, my partner taking control and using my erection as if it were a dildo; otherwise, I prefer being in mutual control. I am more of hips, thigh and ass (like black, or J. Lopez booty)loving man, breast size is unimportant. I really enjoy women who can let go and whimper, moan and are vocal. Flexible women are a +. Shaved and long labia are ++. In a romantic relationship I am kind-hearted, openly affectionate, moral, loyal and believe in honest, open communication. Romance is a 50/50 proposition and I value trust, honesty, commitment, and forgiveness. I have never cheated and am not the jealous type. Jealousy is a nonessential emotion that is very destructive to relationships. Sexually, I strive to be attentive to my partners needs and encourage them to advise me on what pleasures them. Half of my experience is your pleasure. It greatly diminishes my pleasure if you don't receive the satisfaction you need. I prefer bringing my lover to, or close to orgasm before copulation. Whenever possible I encourage them to experience multiple orgasms, even if it means a night of marathon sex. I am a former archaeologist that loves hiking camping, and 4-WD and exploring both physically and mentally. My favorite places are hot springs and canyon country. Being a Gemini, I consider myself as having two perality traits: The mild-mannered, reserved, but communicative per I show people in daily interactions. Get me into bed and I am quite different. With the right partner I allow the sexual animal and kinks in me to come out. Friends describe me as a unique man that is intelligent, creative, kind, considerate, and gallant. I enjoy being a gentleman and will open the door for you. If you believe this trait to be a condescending or sexist character flaw, I am not the man for you. I am non-aggressive and avoid conflict and drama, preferring to stay away from that perality type. I am extremely patient and forgiving; I realize that in daily interactions a lot of information is communicated and, as with myself, it might not all sink in. I encourage friends and co-workers not to feel ashamed or afraid to come back to me and ask for further explanation or guidance. I want to believe I can feel free to do the same with them.

My Ideal Person I am looking for your Ya-who ID. Presently, I need to have fun, want to explore my sexuality and am not specifically looking for a romantic relationship. I am, however, open to the possibility of romance, should our relationship evolve in that direction.

Please No young Gold-diggers, Cheaters, Drama Queens, or Liars! Some individuals don't believe others can except them for who they really are and chose to portray a fantasy view of who they wish they were. In doing so, they are not being fair to themselves, nor to those they are interested in forming relationships with. Please give me the choice to accept the real you and not the fantasy you! I am seeking a financially independent, honest, open, caring woman that has similar morals and values to that of mine, and one that is not afraid to explore their sexuality and my kinks.

Physically, I am most drawn to somewhat exotic, but not necessarily beautiful women with long dark hair, dark eyes and deep skin tones, such as Latina, Asian/Polynesian, Mediterranean, and middle-eastern women. Contrasting hair & eye colors (e.g. Black hair, blue eyes, or Blond/black) is extremely sexy. French and Portuguese accents are the sexiest. Women with these characteristics mesmerize and melt me. I have a Rapunzel fetish for long hair, imagining a roll in the hay, so to speak. So the longer your hair the better. As far as body type, I love tall "Amazons" with nicely defined hips, thighs, and "bootie" (like J. Lopez). Breast size is unimportant and a few extra pounds are ok, just so long as you are shapely. Women I deem as being cute or pretty are my favorites. However, all of this having been said personality is #1.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Yes, Enigmia, Deep Forest, Kingston Trio

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Labia chewing, tugging & clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
J. Lopez, Love her perfect bootie! Lucy Lu, Oriental/Polynesian
women are extremely Hot!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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