Sadly to say I have tried this before. Figured I'd try this website, maybe better results. I am in a sexless relationship with no substance. Probably have to stick it out for a year or two, online porn has worked this far, so another year or two isn't gonna matter to me. I have enough respect for myself not to settle for something that is not a comfortable fit and I want you to feel the same way too. But I also recognize that life is short. I am truly bisexual, but want to have more experience with a man. I am looking for one, loyal, friend to be intimate with. I would like to have a friendship in public also, not sneaking around, because that would make it feel dirty and wrong, and I don't want it to be like that. Not looking to be clingy, or demanding, but want to know and like you for it to be a rewarding friendship for both of us. I'm not ashamed of my feelings, but not looking to blaze any trails right now. I'm A young 54 and as horny as a 18-year-old. , Nice package ,5 foot eight, 205 pounds, muscular, moderately hairy, brown thinning hair, and blue eyes. Very masculine in all aspects of life except the bedroom. Good looking guy with a nice smile and told I look like Brett favre. I don't drink or smoke, sexually I am truly versatile- meaning I know what feels good and know how to make you feel good, or can play the bottom rolefull-time and love it also . Pretty much enjoy everything sexually with a man, with the exception I find it repulsive to do anything ass to mouth, but would have no problem licking your clean but if you would like that. We can set whatever boundaries that we are comfortable with, including if you don't like invasive play. What I want in a guy: fun, well spoken and communicate, Eye contact, masculine, loyalty between us as lovers, Not a person that surfs the websites all the time or is accustomed to having hook ups, know yourself and be spiritually grounded, Nice smile ,honest height weight proportionate. Major turn off's are bad teeth, reckless attitudes towards STDs, ignorance, and men thattake themselves too seriously. My taste in men are eclectic to say the least and I am not looking for somebody perfect. For me photos aren't a good depiction of the man, when I meet him in person I'll know it. I do not want to hear from anybody that doesn't agree with what I've written here, cruises the website lying about themselves weather sexual preferences/roles just so they can have some sex with anybody, This is brief and we can chat online and share some more. Sorry if this sounds so direct, I'm actually lighthearted and easy-going and love to laugh. Just providing basic info at this point so we can actually meet socially and see if we like each other. Also, I just had a blood test, about a month ago, and I'm negative on the bad stuff. Thanks for reading, and always try to see the good in what life has to offer !